Hey sorry for the delayed response but I've actually been thinking about that issue a lot: exactly how much strength is needed for the attachment of engine and transmission?
It's pretty obvious what Audi thinks... using a large number of heavy bolts plus all the small ones that go into the oil pan and such.
The attachment does get subject to a lot of forces in a lot of directions. Here are the ones I can think of:
1. Holding up the front of the transmission. The engine pretty much balances on its mounts IIRC but doesn't the tranny have more weight in front of the mount plane than behind it?
2. Reacting the engine's torque. All the engine's torque goes through the input shaft, causing the transmission to want to rotate one way and the engine to want to rotate the other way. I think resisting that torque falls mostly onto the engine-trans bolts.
3. When you accelerate, the torque from the front axles (assuming the front wheels haven't broken loose

) twists the engine-trans assembly around the axis of the front axles. That force can be considerable... if my math is correct it's equal to the engine's output torque times the overall drive ratio (selected gear ratio * final drive ratio). In first gear the overall drive ratio is about 14.5:1 so suppose your engine is putting out 400 ft-lb of torque the axles are seeing (400 * 14.5) or about 5800 ft-lb... can that be right?
4. When you accelerate, there's a reaction force to the torque coming from the output flange to the center driveshaft (assuming the rear wheels haven't broken loose

). That would be the engine torque times the ratio of the selected gear, so maybe 1400 ft-lb.
5. Vibrations of various sorts in various planes. I have no idea how you'd quantify this.
Anyhow I'm not sure what the end result of all the above is, except that the engine-trans connection needs to be fairly strong. How strong? I have no idea!